{"id":2571,"date":"2014-03-24T13:02:39","date_gmt":"2014-03-24T18:02:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/?p=2571"},"modified":"2014-04-07T07:00:44","modified_gmt":"2014-04-07T12:00:44","slug":"maggie-23-months","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/24\/maggie-23-months\/","title":{"rendered":"Maggie, 23 months"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Maggie is growing up fast. I thought I&#8217;d jot down some recent observations, just a month shy from her second birthday.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Pacifier\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Neither Griffin nor Maggie was ever much interested in pacifiers until about a month ago. Then, suddenly, Maggie became an addict. She calls it her &#8220;fier&#8221; (sometimes pronounced more like &#8220;fwah&#8221;) and demands it at almost all times. I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;re dooming ourselves to future pain, but so far it has reduced crying and whining, and increased her patience with non-optimal situations (e.g., waiting for dinner).<\/li>\n<li>Talking\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Speech got going in earnest for Maggie in September (\u00e2\u2030\u02c617 months). She had a few basic nouns prior to that, but this fall she started adding vocabulary rapidly, and she clearly understood almost everything we said. She was able to respond to queries and construct simple sentences. Most of this, of course, was unintelligible outside the family (and often within). Griffin has been a particularly good interpreter. As always, the arrival of language is transformative. The balance begins to shift from interpretation to communication. She can now, pretty regularly, tell us what she wants or why she&#8217;s unhappy about a situation. This doesn&#8217;t always resolve things to her satisfaction, but it&#8217;s worlds better than us trying to guess why she&#8217;s crying in her car seat (Diaper? Cold? Hot? Thirsty? Hungry? Itchy? Uncomfortable? Bored? Fire ants?). We still remind her regularly to &#8220;Use your words,&#8221; but the fact that she <em>can<\/em> is a gigantic leap.<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Griffin&#8221;\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d She never had much of a name for Griffin because his name was so hard to say. She could say &#8220;Mama&#8221; and &#8220;Daddy,&#8221; but had nothing to say when pointing at Griffin. This changed in February when she finally managed a recognizable version of his name. It&#8217;s not 100% consistent, but sounds something like &#8220;Guhggin&#8221; or &#8220;Gohdun.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I choose!&#8221;\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d This usually relates to clothing, when Maggie will demand to choose every article of clothing and gets very peevish about any fashion advice. This is great&#8230; most of the time. Can be difficult when we&#8217;re in a rush or when the weather dictates warmer options than she&#8217;s choosing. I&#8217;m getting better at pre-selecting her options, like, &#8220;Do you want these long johns or these ones?&#8221; She&#8217;s usually game for that.<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I try!&#8221;\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Maggie wants to do everything herself, and this is her battle cry. It often follows, &#8220;I choose!&#8221; when getting dressed. She loves to try and dress herself. Again, often fun (and she&#8217;s remarkably good at it), but it works best when we have a very leisurely schedule. If we&#8217;re in a rush to get her brother to preschool, she will howl like she&#8217;s dying as I pull her socks on. She also regularly wants to do scarier things like help us cook at the hot stove, climb playground equipment\u00c2\u00a0<em>way<\/em>\u00c2\u00a0beyond her ability, cross streets without holding hands, etc.<\/li>\n<li>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2578\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2578\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140323-Celery-with-Ketchup-2.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2578 \" alt=\"Celery with ketchup... Yum!\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140323-Celery-with-Ketchup-2.jpg?w=200&#038;ssl=1\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140323-Celery-with-Ketchup-2.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140323-Celery-with-Ketchup-2.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140323-Celery-with-Ketchup-2.jpg?w=948&amp;ssl=1 948w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140323-Celery-with-Ketchup-2.jpg?w=1422&amp;ssl=1 1422w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2578\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Celery with ketchup&#8230; Yum!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Eating\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Maggie is at an adventurous eating stage. Meals are another time when &#8220;I try!&#8221; comes out. She sees me pour Sriracha on my soup and suddenly the world will end if she doesn&#8217;t have a large dollop of chili sauce on her soup too. But, with that said, she&#8217;s quite tolerant of strong flavors and even a bit of heat. She loves dipping things into ketchup, too, including just about anything that she&#8217;s eating. She&#8217;s remarkably good with silverware, using a regular salad fork and teaspoon for the past few months. She prefers using silverware even when it slows her down. This is in contrast to Griffin who still regularly digs into his bowl of mac-and-cheese with his hand; no joke. See our recent <a title=\"Two Plates\" href=\"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/15\/two-plates\/\">Two Plates<\/a> post for a fairly typical comparison after an identical meal.<\/li>\n<li>Climbing\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Maggie is getting really into climbing. Recently she began climbing the ladder to Griffin&#8217;s loft without assistance. This is terrifying. She climbs into and out of her high chair, usually successfully, and can sometimes manage her car seat. She has no trouble with stairs, but sometimes chooses to sit at one end or the other wailing for a parent to carry her.<\/li>\n<li>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2585\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2585\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2585 \" alt=\"Griffin has been climbing into Maggie's crib in the morning with a pile of books. It's seriously the most adorable thing. (They're also reading one of Joey Alison Sayers' comics \u00e2\u20ac\u201d quality lit!)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?w=200&#038;ssl=1\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?w=948&amp;ssl=1 948w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Crib-Reading.jpg?w=1422&amp;ssl=1 1422w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2585\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Griffin has been climbing into Maggie&#8217;s crib in the morning with a pile of books. Adorable! And awesome for me! (They&#8217;re also reading one of Joey Alison Sayers&#8217; comics \u00e2\u20ac\u201d quality lit!)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Playing with Griffin\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Maggie and Griffin have become inseparable playmates. Throughout the day we hear Griffin saying things like, &#8220;Maggie, do you want to have a dark party?&#8221; or &#8220;Maggie, do you want to play chase?&#8221; or &#8220;Maggie, do you want to read some books?&#8221; Maggie usually cocks her head quizzically for a moment and then says, &#8220;Yeah!&#8221; Over spring break I&#8217;ve been down with a nasty virus, so it&#8217;s been wonderful to see the kids playing so well together. A particular miracle has been their new habit of reading together in Maggie&#8217;s crib in the morning (instead of yelling for me at the top of their lungs).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h3>Other recent Maggie pics:<\/h3>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2574\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2574\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2574 \" alt=\"Maggie loves to dance\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?resize=300%2C249&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"300\" height=\"249\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?resize=300%2C249&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?resize=1024%2C851&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?w=1924&amp;ssl=1 1924w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?w=948&amp;ssl=1 948w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?w=1422&amp;ssl=1 1422w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2574\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Maggie loves to dance, like her brother.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2573\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2573\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Daddy-Nap.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2573 \" alt=\"Maggie and Daddy after a nap (Daddy was not feeling well)\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Daddy-Nap.jpg?resize=300%2C230&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"300\" height=\"230\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Daddy-Nap.jpg?resize=300%2C230&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Daddy-Nap.jpg?w=450&amp;ssl=1 450w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2573\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Maggie and Daddy after a nap (Daddy was not feeling well)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2582\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2582\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-in-a-Basket.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2582\" alt=\"Maggie likes to climb into things\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-in-a-Basket.jpg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-in-a-Basket.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-in-a-Basket.jpg?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-in-a-Basket.jpg?w=948&amp;ssl=1 948w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2582\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Maggie likes to climb into things<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2583\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2583\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-Daddy-Snow.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2583\" alt=\"Snowy walk home from Griffin's preschool on Monday, March 24. Maggie is generally happy on long walks, which suits me nicely.\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-Daddy-Snow.jpg?resize=300%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-Daddy-Snow.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-Daddy-Snow.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-Daddy-Snow.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Maggie-Daddy-Snow.jpg?w=948&amp;ssl=1 948w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2583\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Snowy walk home from Griffin&#8217;s preschool on Monday, March 24. Maggie is generally happy on long walks, which suits me nicely.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maggie is growing up fast. I thought I&#8217;d jot down some recent observations, just a month shy from her second birthday. Pacifier\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d Neither Griffin nor Maggie was ever much interested in pacifiers until about a month ago. Then, suddenly, Maggie became an addict. She calls it her &#8220;fier&#8221; (sometimes pronounced more like &#8220;fwah&#8221;) and demands &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/24\/maggie-23-months\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Maggie, 23 months<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2574,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[45,54],"tags":[25,81,51],"class_list":["post-2571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maggie","category-photo","tag-daddy-reflections","tag-maggie","tag-pictures"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/20140320-Maggie-Dancing.jpg?fit=1924%2C1600&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2571","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2571"}],"version-history":[{"count":14,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2571\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2681,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2571\/revisions\/2681"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2574"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stoccoroy.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}