We flew to Bethesda to visit my parents for about a week around Christmas. A major blizzard and arctic chill was kicking off on the day we left, so we were lucky to make it with only a moderate delay. It was cold in the DC area too, but not nearly as bad as places further north. It was a fun trip, overlapping for a few days with Dave, Nancy, Raven, and Max.
One of my favorite places in the DC area is the National Cathedral. Despite my irreligiousness, I have always found places of worship (of any religion) to be compelling. In boarding school I used to sneak into the chapel and sit on a pew to read. At Oberlin I enjoyed Finney Chapel in the same way. Overseas, I’ve spent a fair amount of time at Hindu, Buddhist, Muslim, and Jewish shrines, mosques, and temples. Most such places create a sense of awe and peace, calming my thoughts and providing space for contemplation.
The National Cathedral certainly has heaping portions of awe. I discovered it in late high school when the west towers were still under construction. I think my friend and D&D buddy, Dan Williamson, (“Toby,” back then) was the first to introduce me to it. It was free to visit, so I used to swing by fairly regularly to wander around or find a comfortable nook to read in (or to scribble notes for my next D&D adventure).
Ever since being damaged by an unusual earthquake in 2011, it has an entrance fee to help cover repair expenses. (Repairs are ongoing, hopefully to be completed in 2025.) Between that and getting out to DC infrequently, I have only visited a handful of times in the past few decades. It remains as magnificent as ever.
One thing that I appreciate about the cathedral is the history and culture that is woven into its art. There’s a grotesque (like a gargoyle) of Darth Vader. There are busts and statues of presidents and historic civil rights leaders. There are stained glass windows commemorating Native Americans and the moon landing. On our latest visit, we learned that the cathedral recently decided to replace two windows portraying Robert E. Lee and Stonewall Jackson with designs by Kerry James Marshall.
We visited as a family on the Tuesday after Christmas. Here’s a haphazard selection of photos from our visit.
We visited Norway House in Minneapolis to see their annual Gingerbread Wonderland exhibit. As always, it was amazing to see the variety of styles and skill levels. Anyone can submit an entry. The requirements:
I’m including a lot of pictures, many of which are not great shots, because we want them as inspiration for future gingerbread creations of our own. Who knows, maybe we’ll even submit a creation some day.
After a whirlwind of post-Thanksgiving school, we’re all on break again for the winter holidays. Griffin is at an all-day D&D game with some friends. Maggie and Oliver, meanwhile, are building an epic from-scratch gingerbread house with Sarah.
Update: See below for a few pictures of the construction process and final product.
Oliver has been working on learning countries around the world. This week he completed a map of Europe. He hasn’t labeled everything yet, but I love the creative spellings (Itle = Italy; youkran = Ukraine, etc.).
While we were loading the car today, we heard gales of laughter from the cabin. We returned to find Oliver decked out as a miniature Sarah.
We celebrated Oliver’s sixth birthday at the cabin. Oliver prepared by creating a schedule for the day with his siblings:
In reality, we didn’t really follow the schedule, but the key elements were all there: cupcakes, playing, presents, and games.
We pared down our feast a bit this year to make it work without plumbing at the cabin. Instead of a full turkey, we roasted a partial bird. We made the stuffing, cranberry sauce, gravy, and pies in advance. At the cabin we added mashed potatoes and Brussels sprouts.
